When you make your first attempt at the bucket list item that is shower sex, you find out in about two seconds that it's more complex than just steaminess, passion and orgasms. What should you do about lube? What are you supposed to hold onto? Can you use toys or will that lead to a painful and embarrassing death? First, lube. Water seems like it'd be really great but it wears off immediately.
Water Sex: 28 Tips and Tricks for Sex in Bath, Shower, Hot Tub, More
The cascading water, the steam, the delicious aromas wafting through the air, and the spanking-clean, naked skin are total aphrodisiacs. Kinky sex but make it literally clean. All the same things that make the sex so hot—the slipperiness, the crammed quarters—also make it logistically challenging. To get it on without slipping and sliding all over the place, try one of these 15 positions and tips that are made for getting it on in the shower. Lean back against the shower wall while your partner stands in front of you—then wrap one leg around their waist or ask them to hold the back of your knee in the crook of their elbow to make this move a little easier on you.
If you've ever had shower sex that made you feel like a wet chihuahua—shivering, uncomfortable, awk AF—you're not alone. Getting dirty in the place that gets you clean is far more complicated than any rom-com side-eyeing you, How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days , Friends With Benefits or porno suggests. Two, water is not I repeat, NOT a lubricant—in fact, it can actually make you feel more dry than wet I know, the irony. And last but not least, there is absolutely nothing sexy about accidentally taking a gulp of hot water up your nose or in your mouth when you're trying to get your O on.
For those of us living in New York, having sex in a bathtub is controversial. I mean, I have a full tub, but I doubt two adult-sized humans could fit comfortably. I haven't tried yet , so who knows? But if you're one of the blessed beings with a roomy tub, here are some tips to pull off bathtub sex. Think dim lighting, lit candles, and a sexy soundtrack.